Relationship Advice

In difficult economic times where there are foreclosures, money, job and other problems, relationships become stressed. Added to all the external problems we then add our internal relationship problems.

The trap that you can easily fall into is the "blame game" and the most convenient one to blame is a spouse or partner. The first word of caution is: watch your tongue. Even after repairing your relationship you can only say your sorry, but you cannot erase what you said from their memory.

Lonelyness can cause you say things just so you can repair a relationship, use caution, make sure you mean what you say.

There was a friend who in the heat of an argument said some harsh words to his wife, later when they made up he of course said he was sorry. His wife passed away and many times he expressed the burden that still haunted him from words said in a moment of anger.

What's Broken

Something has to be broken if it's in need of repairing and repairing a relationship is no different.

We know what the top three things are that cause problems in relationships, they are:
  1. Communication
  2. Money
  3. Affairs
There are a variety of books, magazines and help on fixing cars, managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little useful information on how to fix a broken relationship…manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back.

The Experts Say

The first step is to identify what is broken so you know what to repair. The experts say many times the two partners are not even arguing about the same things. Both are talking, no one is listening and don't realize they are angry about two different problems.

The other point made is little things go unsolved and before you know it, it quickly turns into a big problem. Surveyed, most people said they ignored the little problems hoping they would go away, when they didn't the couples were not prepared to handle the blowup.

According to the experts the other thing that stalls repairing a relationship is admitting fault. If you can approach this not as a sign of weakness, but a sign of maturity repairing relationships becomes much easier.

Getting good advice, getting the right advice is crucial.

You and your partner have a important decision to make, do you even want to repair the relationship? If the answer is Yes, then there is help and a lot of information about making up and repairing your relationship.

Go To The Art of Making Up to find the answers you need. If you are serious, really serious about repairing a relationship. Don't make the same mistakes again and again, make it right this time.

Remember "Failing are the steps required for Success, if you don't take the chances to fail you'll never have the chance to succeed".

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